EXCERPT FROM INTERVIEW WITH MATAJI – SUBK JOURNAL

Excerpt from Interview with Mataji, SUBK Journal

Q: As a loving and highly respected wife and mother and grandmother—and you are at the centre of a traditional extended Indian family—what value do you see in Vipassana for family life?

A: It is very, very helpful for the joint family. If somebody asks for guidance, then one sees it from the Dhamma angle: one does not find fault with others, and gives the correct advice. On the other hand, if you are not asked for any guidance, then you are also happy. It is not as if you are boosting your ego, that everybody must come and ask you for everything. If somebody asks, you give your opinion; otherwise you are content and happy within yourself. Vipassana is very helpful.

Q: How has Dhamma helped you? And, as a Dhamma teacher, how have you seen the technique help others?

A: I have peace of mind. I am happy, and I don’t care for other things. For me, Dhamma is a benefit all around. It gives people peace of mind in all respects, and also helps them to carry out their duties in life. It is not money which brings happiness and contentment in the heart. If someone has no money, and has Dhamma, then such a person will feel “Oh, I am full.” One will feel so content, even if there is no money, because Dhamma is there.

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Our tradition is one of morality, concentration and wisdom, where one works to purify the mind and build pāramīs (noble qualities, perfections). It is void of gurudom, and full of friendship and humility; both Goenkaji and Mataji showed us that by example.

We don’t regularly give attention to anniversaries, as to stay away from any hint of worshipping. We only make use of this date as an opportunity to reflect on the life of Mataji; a life full of service and mettā. Our Dhamma mother was, and continues to be, an inspiration for many on the path of Dhamma.